Two weeks ago I wrote a blog on the healing power of food. At the time I wrote it I thought God had taught me what I needed to know in that area. (You can stop laughing now). As with all things, the minute I think I have it figured out God shows me how much more I have to learn. While I've been continuing to process this new found passion and lesson, He has continued to show me how great of a need there is for the power of a home cooked meal.
The day I wrote my last blog I saw a recipe on the Food Tidings facebook page where they said, "This would make a great freezer meal". I posted a comment about our group, as well as links to our group and my blog. I am familiar with Food Tidings because our MOPS group has used them for use to coordinate meals for families after the birth of a baby.
A few days after I posted my comment I got a message from Lisa, the co-founder of Food Tidings, asking more about our group. The e-mail conversation I had with Lisa became a story Food Tidings blog. The Funky Freezer Girls facebook page added several new friends as a result of that post and Jackie and I were left saying "Wow, God!" I was energized by those events and was convinced that we'd just seen a glimpse of what God was going to do with Jackie's "crazy little idea".
On Friday, August 26 I saw on my Facebook news feed that a friend "liked" a group called Crock Pot Girls. The "girls" had about 25,000 "likes" at that time and I was amazed they'd only been on Facebook since Friday, August 19!
After I liked the group I wrote on their wall telling them how excited I was about the idea because some of the most loved meals in our group are crock pot meals. I shared the FFG Facebook page and by Saturday afternoon we had 1000 likes! We're up over 2200 likes and my little dream is becoming a reality as groups are starting to form in several cities!
The Crock Pot Girls are seriously exploding on the internet and these 3 MOPS moms who started the site for their family and friends are having their world rocked. In the time it's taken me to write this they're up over 25k "likes" and, at this rate, will pass 500k within the hour! WOW! ONLY GOD could do something this amazing and this incredible.
As I've been cheering on Crock Pot Girls, and have been watching a friend help them with marketing and media relations, I've been thinking about what has made them such a phenomenon. I think it comes back to the fact that there is healing power in food and, at the end of the day, we all want to feed our families good, healthy food. Sitting around the table and sharing a meal with our families is about so much more than filling our stomachs--it's about feeding our souls, strengthening relationships and taking the time to slow down. Ok, I'm sure part of the popularity of Crock Pot Girls might have to do with the fact there are thousands of crock pots collecting dust in kitchens across America because everyone's got one, but not all of us know what to do with it, but I prefer to think of the Crock Pot Girls as a ministry that is being used to bring families together.
The Crock Pot Girls, Funky Freezer Girls and Food Tidings are all groups started by women and are about helping others provide home cooked meals. Three different groups, but at their root all these groups are grounded in the power of food. (I've also noticed these groups are all born out of churches and/or mom's groups . . . I don't think that's a coincidence, either).
Instead of thinking I've got this whole "power of food" thing down I'm realizing that I'm just beginning to glimpse the power of food for the nourishment of our souls. Judging by what's happening on Facebook this week I think the world is starting to realize it, too . .
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Monday, August 15, 2011
The Healing Power of Food
Life has been fairly hectic here, not leaving much time for blogging, no matter how much I enjoy it. I've had a list going of the things I've been wanting to write about, but God hijacked those today and led me to what is becoming an overwhelming passion of mine . . . the healing power of food.
After the Funky Freezer Girls got started I had a dream. In the past year I have seen firsthand how much it means for hurting families to have a homecooked meal during their struggle. This spring I read The 10 Habits of Happy Mothers: Reclaiming Our Passion, Purpose, and Sanity by Dr. Meg Meeker, a pediatrician, wife and mom. I wish I could type out the entire 3 pages of a story Dr. Meeker relates in the book about the power of food in a section entitled, "Food is Friendship" because it is so powerful and touches me in a profound way. In one of my favorite passages from the book, Dr. Meeker writes about WHY we feel the need to take care of others through food:
For the past several months a mentor's infant granddaughter has been fighting for her life. Just after arriving in the world in April this beautiful little girl was diagnosed with a heart condition that required immediate surgery. In June sweet Stella had to be re-admitted to the hospital because of stenosis and her fight REALLY began. Stella's story isn't mine to share, but she is a true miracle and this weekend she got to go home after spending nearly 2 months in the hospital. Because of all I've learned in recent months, once I knew Miss Stella was about to bust out of the hospital for the first time since mid-June I started cooking and asked her Yaya when I could drop off meals for a weary Mom and Dad. Since then a website has been set up to help them as well and I know they'll have meals covered for a long time, but it just felt good to be able to do something tangible for them.
I'm continually blown away by how God has used the Funky Freezer Girls. What started out as a group of moms who were looking to simplify their lives a little bit has become one of the greatest experiences of my life. I started out by being lazy and needing help making dinner each night, but God has taken me on a journey that has changed my heart forever and, in my mind, the least important thing about my freezer group is what I stack inside my own freezer each month.
Among the lessons I've learned on this journey is that blessing others through food is not about being a great cook. You'll never see me on FoodNetwork and I'll never publish a cookbook. I'm extremely intimidated when I need to cook for others and I'm not a fan of most cooking websites because I'm not a "foodie". I can follow a simple recipe, but if it calls for more than a handful of basic ingredients or something from a special market you won't find it coming out of my kitchen. Despite all that, I've learned that, as Dr. Meeker said, it's about the intention. Whether I slaved for two days over a pasta sauce and homemade noodles (not going to be happening at my place) or I whip together a casserole in 15 minutes by adding together what's in my pantry, it doesn't matter to the family who is being loved on. What matters is that food was lovingly, thoughtfully and prayerfully prepared . . .
After the Funky Freezer Girls got started I had a dream. In the past year I have seen firsthand how much it means for hurting families to have a homecooked meal during their struggle. This spring I read The 10 Habits of Happy Mothers: Reclaiming Our Passion, Purpose, and Sanity by Dr. Meg Meeker, a pediatrician, wife and mom. I wish I could type out the entire 3 pages of a story Dr. Meeker relates in the book about the power of food in a section entitled, "Food is Friendship" because it is so powerful and touches me in a profound way. In one of my favorite passages from the book, Dr. Meeker writes about WHY we feel the need to take care of others through food:
For many of us mothers, feeding people is our love language. When we are too intimidated to express our feelings, particularly when sadness is involved, we resort to casseroles. Bake chicken, cut up carrots, and roll out pie dough. These are the hand motions of a friend who longs to soothe a mother's broken heart. And somehow, miraculously they do (pg 28)Dr. Meeker goes on to to tell the story of the power of food and friendship in the lives of two women, Beth and Lisa. Lisa's husband was dying of cancer, leaving her with small children and Beth cooked for their family throughout his illness. Dr. Meeker lets Beth tell the story :
"During those last days, we went to the grocery store a lot," Beth recalls, "because I was in a serious cooking mode then. I felt so helpless. I wanted to love Lisa the best I could, but words, hugs, flowers, nothing did it. I don't even know if food did, but I do know one thing, that cooking at least made us all feel that some part of life--maybe the task of keeping alive--was moving forward. We had to all just keep moving forward." (30)Dr. Meeker ends the section by writing:
"Food doesn't soothe, but intention does. Where love stops, chicken pot pies can take over . . . So I will cook for you now, says that friend. I can pretend that you are with me and that I can make life better for you. So let me in, says the food." (30)Earlier today a friend posted this blog on the Funky Freezer Girls facebook page from one woman whose life had been blessed by being on the receiving end of a friend's cooking.
For the past several months a mentor's infant granddaughter has been fighting for her life. Just after arriving in the world in April this beautiful little girl was diagnosed with a heart condition that required immediate surgery. In June sweet Stella had to be re-admitted to the hospital because of stenosis and her fight REALLY began. Stella's story isn't mine to share, but she is a true miracle and this weekend she got to go home after spending nearly 2 months in the hospital. Because of all I've learned in recent months, once I knew Miss Stella was about to bust out of the hospital for the first time since mid-June I started cooking and asked her Yaya when I could drop off meals for a weary Mom and Dad. Since then a website has been set up to help them as well and I know they'll have meals covered for a long time, but it just felt good to be able to do something tangible for them.
I'm continually blown away by how God has used the Funky Freezer Girls. What started out as a group of moms who were looking to simplify their lives a little bit has become one of the greatest experiences of my life. I started out by being lazy and needing help making dinner each night, but God has taken me on a journey that has changed my heart forever and, in my mind, the least important thing about my freezer group is what I stack inside my own freezer each month.
Among the lessons I've learned on this journey is that blessing others through food is not about being a great cook. You'll never see me on FoodNetwork and I'll never publish a cookbook. I'm extremely intimidated when I need to cook for others and I'm not a fan of most cooking websites because I'm not a "foodie". I can follow a simple recipe, but if it calls for more than a handful of basic ingredients or something from a special market you won't find it coming out of my kitchen. Despite all that, I've learned that, as Dr. Meeker said, it's about the intention. Whether I slaved for two days over a pasta sauce and homemade noodles (not going to be happening at my place) or I whip together a casserole in 15 minutes by adding together what's in my pantry, it doesn't matter to the family who is being loved on. What matters is that food was lovingly, thoughtfully and prayerfully prepared . . .
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